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Expensevo's avatar

A year ago, My daughter asked for PBs, claiming “they are reversible, why wont you let me have time to think about this?”I brought her highlighted published papers on the side effects and risks (instant menopause:, hot flashes, worsening depression, irritability, bone development, sexual development, brain/emotional development and high correlation to CSH) After our talk, she said “i didnt know”. She never asked for them again.

Now a year later she questions of she really feels like a boy. Or maybe I wont forever, maybe Im just scared to be in the world as a woman. What a difference a year of real development makes.

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Linoak's avatar

I have gone over and over this issue in my head, wondering how it was possible that the medical community could be so disingenuous in the face of such potential harm to children and the lack of a rational basis for their use. We received the standard "pause button" line from the gender clinic after they prescribed blockers following a 1-hour Zoom call with my son, plus the words of concern about the difficulty passing if we didn't act immediately. He was 14 at the time, and so unstable that they subsequently recommended a neuropsych evaluation and a mood stabilizer. We originally consented, but I didn't feel comfortable and started the lonely and distressing research path that all parents who question seem to find themselves on. Getting answers from the clinic about the safety of blockers, the evidence, the logic, was impossible. It took almost a year to get my child off of them — partly because I couldn't get my husband to agree and partly because the clinic put him on a 6-month dose when they ran out of the 3-month. Ultimately, his own behavior and my relentless hounding got him booted from the clinic until he was stable and "re-evaluated," rather than any acknowledgment from them or epiphany on the part of our son. Despite my complaints, they continue to provide the same misinformation to parents — nothing mentioning concerns or even the slightest controversy. I requested that they test my son's FSH and LH levels to see if his system was recovering but they refuse to do so before June 2023 — a full year and a half after he was due for the next dose. I'll need to have the tests done at an outside clinic once my son is more stable. Then we'll have a bit more information about just how reversible this "treatment" is. It sickens me to think that we may have unknowingly consented to serious, permanent harm to our child. No parent should have to live with this regret.

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